Tag: relationships

How Do You “Know”? Analysing Isms in a Potential Alcoholic

It can creep up on you slowly because sometimes, knowledge is a process rather than an event. When we are in school and learning a program or skills, one moment we didn’t have it and the next, we’ve read or tried it and suddenly it’s become part of our knowledge base. But not all things [...]

What is a Dry Drunk?

Last night I held a book launch party for a friend of a friend who has written a book about love addiction. Attendees represented a diversity of professions and personal situations. Some were there for the intrigue, some to support a friend, and some possibly for guidance. I met new people and old acquaintances. I [...]

How to Help Our Children

When you’re in the thick of a dysfunctional relationship with an alcoholic, it’s hard to imagine life will ever be “normal” again. Then as you go through the healing process and life does become more manageable, it can be difficult to stop stressing and micro-managing every aspect of our lives and the lives of those [...]

Falling in Love Again

When you are first recovering from life with an alcoholic, romance couldn’t be further from your mind. All I wanted was a nice, boring life without chaos and fear. Serenity would be great. Happiness on top of that would be icing – almost too much to hope for. But as recovery sets in and healing [...]