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Loving Detachment – Emotional Detachment from the Alcoholic
The concept of loving detachment can be a life-saver for the supporter of an alcoholic, but great reward usually requires great work. Embracing loving detachment means embracing some foundational changes in your own actions and beliefs. The first of this three-post series on loving detachment focussed on the overall concept of loving the addict while [...]
Posted: December 16th, 2011 under Loving Detachment, Uncategorized.
Tags: Boundaries, care taking, Change, independence, loving detachment, self awareness
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Appreciating the Moment
They say that infrants grow at the same rate as the strength of our arm muscles, enabling us to carry them as they age, but only to a point. There reaches a time when the size and weight of our child force us to let them go, so they can walk and run and begin [...]
Posted: November 20th, 2010 under The Big Picture, Uncategorized.
Tags: Boundaries, Children, Control, Judgements, Parenting
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Teaching Your Kids to Avoid Addictive Behaviour
There is considerable opinion within both the medical and alcoholic treatment communities that alcoholism may be genetically inherited. I’m not sure if I believe that, but I am open enough to the possibility, I know that I want to teach my children how to avoid behaviours that might lead to or encourage alcoholism. And whether or not [...]
Posted: June 16th, 2010 under Family Issues, Uncategorized.
Tags: Alcoholic behaviours, Boundaries, Children, consequences, independence, Parenting
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