Archive for 'Family Issues'
What is a Dry Drunk?
Last night I held a book launch party for a friend of a friend who has written a book about love addiction. Attendees represented a diversity of professions and personal situations. Some were there for the intrigue, some to support a friend, and some possibly for guidance. I met new people and old acquaintances. I [...]
Posted: October 22nd, 2011 under Dealing with Isms Around Us, Family Issues, Living with an alcoholic, The Alcoholic Family.
Tags: Alcoholic behaviours, Focus, independence, Isms, Love, relationships
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Changing the Things We Can
My father had Alzheimer’s, so whenever I hear about anything to do with degenerative brain function, I tend to listen. This morning I spent an enjoyable half hour listening to an archived radio broadcast a friend had sent me the link to. The show was an edition of the CBC’s Quirks and Quarks, and featured [...]
Posted: August 28th, 2011 under Family Issues.
Tags: Change, Children, compassion, Feelings, growth, Isms, Life lessons, Parenting
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Parenting Through the Insecurities of an Alcoholic’s Child
My fourteen year old son sometimes reminds me more of a five year old. Despite being at an age where normally, teenage children are stretching boundaries in order to gain independence, he’s becoming even more dependent on me. In the short term, this isn’t a bad thing, and it’s quite understandable in the circumstances. He [...]
Posted: June 30th, 2010 under Family Issues.
Tags: Children, compassion, growth, independence, Parenting
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Teaching Your Kids to Avoid Addictive Behaviour
There is considerable opinion within both the medical and alcoholic treatment communities that alcoholism may be genetically inherited. I’m not sure if I believe that, but I am open enough to the possibility, I know that I want to teach my children how to avoid behaviours that might lead to or encourage alcoholism. And whether or not [...]
Posted: June 16th, 2010 under Family Issues, Uncategorized.
Tags: Alcoholic behaviours, Boundaries, Children, consequences, independence, Parenting
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Helping the Children of an Alcoholic
Alcoholism is often called “The Family Disease” because of its affect on everyone in the family. Don’t kid yourself: the children of an alcoholic do not come off unscathed despite how careful you think you have been around them. Children are incredibly intuitive, and they don’t always let you know their true feelings. Regardless, a [...]
Posted: August 18th, 2009 under Family Issues.
Tags: Children, communication
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