Archive for 'Family Issues'

What is a Dry Drunk?

Last night I held a book launch party for a friend of a friend who has written a book about love addiction. Attendees represented a diversity of professions and personal situations. Some were there for the intrigue, some to support a friend, and some possibly for guidance. I met new people and old acquaintances. I [...]

Changing the Things We Can

My father had Alzheimer’s, so whenever I hear about anything to do with degenerative brain function, I tend to listen. This morning I spent an enjoyable half hour listening to an archived radio broadcast a friend had sent me the link to. The show was an edition of the CBC’s Quirks and Quarks, and featured [...]

Parenting Through the Insecurities of an Alcoholic’s Child

My fourteen year old son sometimes reminds me more of a five year old.  Despite being at an age where normally, teenage children are stretching boundaries in order to gain independence, he’s becoming even more dependent on me.  In the short term, this isn’t a bad thing, and it’s quite understandable in the circumstances.  He [...]

Teaching Your Kids to Avoid Addictive Behaviour

There is considerable opinion within both the medical and alcoholic treatment communities that alcoholism may be genetically inherited.  I’m not sure if I believe that, but I am open enough to the possibility, I know that I want to teach my children how to avoid behaviours that might lead to or encourage alcoholism.  And whether or not [...]

Helping the Children of an Alcoholic

Alcoholism is often called “The Family Disease” because of its affect on everyone in the family.  Don’t kid yourself: the children of an alcoholic do not come off unscathed despite how careful you think you have been around them.  Children are incredibly intuitive, and they don’t always let you know their true feelings.  Regardless, a [...]